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You know the scene in Castaway where an increasingly insane and unkempt Tom Hanks marks off the days he’s been stranded at sea, watching the number slowly tick up?
Today, we can oddly relate. After a full two months in quarantine, our family is starting to feel a little marooned and isolated ourselves. I’m personally not sure which I’m jonesing for more — a root touch up or a beach vacation. But with the stay at home rules only just starting to be loosened in some places, we have a feeling it might be a little bit before we’re sipping pina coladas in a cabana by the pool.
So, until that glorious day comes, we’re making the most of our time at home and doing our best to “get away” on some good old-fashioned staycation activities while sheltering in place with our kids.
Camp out
I’m not a camper. Bugs and wildlife and public bathrooms that look like scenes from horror films have never been my jam. Add a toddler in the middle of potty training to the mix and you’ve pretty much got my worst nightmare.
But pitching a tent in your own backyard is the perfect happy medium — all the novelty of a new experience with all the amenities of home. What’s not to love about that?
Pick a night when the weather’s going to be decent (nothing ruins a camp out like a torrential downpour), find yourself a nice tent and some sleeping bags on Amazon, pack a cooler with camping fare classics — hot dogs, Jiffy Pop, all the fixins for s’mores which you can cook over the grill — and spend some time in the great outdoors. Bring along card games to play, tell scary stories, or try to find the different constellations.
If you’re looking for us, we’ll be perfecting the art of making s’mores. Photo by Priscilla du Preez
You’ll be amazed what a little adventure and change of scenery can do for everyone’s spirits. And if at the end of the night everyone winds up back inside in their own beds, we won’t judge.
If you’re like my family and don’t have a yard (which we lament on a regular basis these days), try camping inside instead. No tent? No problem. Blanket and pillow forts happen to be the absolute best sleeping accommodations, in our personal opinion.
You can still have all the camping classics, just made over the stove. Missing the crackle of the fire and chirp of the crickets? There’s a soundtrack for that! YouTube alone has several atmospheric noise soundtracks to choose from. For added fun, turn out the lights and use flashlights or camping lanterns to create the effect of actually being outside.
Make a fancy dinner
Has anyone else fallen into a COVID induced cooking rut? We’re currently cycling through four mainstays on a weekly basis — mac n’ cheese, tacos, pizza, and fish sticks. Yes. Fish sticks. When the already dreaded task of going to the grocery store becomes a stressful maze of one-way aisles and dodging people like Frogger in a 1980s arcade game, we’ll do anything to simplify the process.
But nothing exacerbates a boring routine quite like having the same thing for dinner every single week. So make some reservations at that super exclusive new restaurant known as your kitchen. Find a recipe that’s a little fancier but can easily be adapted to a kid-friendly version for picky eaters. Get everyone involved in the cooking prep. Break out the nice dishes. Dress up. (Or at least wear regular pants that don’t have elastic in the waistband.) Play some fun music.
You’ll be on your way to a Michelin star in no time.
I don’t think you double-strained the sauce…
Do a drive-in movie
When we were kids, there was one drive-in movie theater a few towns away that my parents would take us to once in a blue moon. It was in the middle of a field and despite its rustic amenities, it was oddly no less expensive than the regular movie theater. But we loved going there. We’d throw open the rear door on my mom’s suburban and curl up with a giant blanket, bags of red vines, and boxes of Reese’s Pieces. The movie could have been absolute garbage and we wouldn’t have cared. We just loved the experience.
Nowadays, it’s a nostalgic experience you can easily replicate at home. There are several moderately priced “pocket” projectors on Amazon that you can get for less than $100. And let’s be honest, it’s not any more than a trip to the movie theater costs you for a family of 4. Hook the projector up to your phone, hang a white bed sheet on your garage door, get tons of snacks, rent the latest blockbuster or family friendly classic, and have a drive-in movie at home.
Give us all the stars — both the Hollywood and the constellation variety.
Go somewhere exotic
You don’t need expensive plane tickets or a passport to have an exotic getaway. Create it yourself.
Have your kids look at a map and pick a destination they want to “travel” to and then use Amazon and your imagination to bring the destination to you.
Want to go to Hawaii? Buy some cheap grace skirts on Amazon or Etsy and YouTube how to hula dance. Bust out the blender and make virgin pina coladas with tiny beach umbrellas. Have a Hawaiian inspired menu with pineapple and ham pizzas and kid-friendly poke bowls.
Encourage your kids to research the destination and think of creative ways to bring it home. It’ll give them something to actively do that has the added benefit of teaching them about another part of the world.
Create a home spa
While I’ve started to embrace my Castaway look, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t miss the pampering and relaxation of a nice afternoon at the spa. There’s not much I wouldn’t do these days for a fresh manicure and face mask. But until we’re able to go to the salon, have spa days at home. Buy some facial masks online or make your own from scratch. Turn on some soothing music and maybe an essential oil diffuser. If you’re feeling really fancy, throw some cucumbers in your water.
Then luxuriate, with your kids or without. There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking an evening to yourself to just decompress. Establish a daily wellness routine to take care of yourself and your kids, if they’re willing. Few people are feeling the effects of quarantine quite like us moms, so don’t forget to take a little time for you. Pour a glass of wine and soak in a nice bath. Do your nails. Enjoy an hour or two free from the homeschooling and the entertaining and the refereeing and the cleaning and the cooking and the million other things. You’ve definitely earned it.
Give us all the sugar scrubs, please! Photo by Uby Yanes
Being cooped up is starting to get to all of us. But with a little planning and some creativity, you can create fun experiences at home that the whole family can enjoy. Here’s some more trip and spa ideas you can try.
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My kids are getting a little antsy too cooped up at home. We have a projector and screen and frequently play family movies. With a tub of popcorn, and then throw some mattresses on the floor, and we are good to go!
I would love to make fancy dinners but most of our markets are running dry here too. We just about manage with the basic vegetables and spices.
a drive-in movie sounds awesome especially since summer is here in Canada. will I need speakers too or will it be built in the pocket projector?
There is actually a built-in speaker but also a port to attach an external speaker. So, I guess it would depend on how big your space is! Thanks for reading!
Every mum should read this in lockdown! some awesome suggestions here. Drive in movie sounds so dreamy! what a great idea! face masks and essential oils are so good for self care! and what a way to have fun with the kids and enjoy yourself too! awesome ideas
Thank you! Feel free to share it with your friends who are stuck on ideas!
Like all over-achieving mothers, I always tried to plan interesting vacations for my son. But in the end, he was often as happy as long as he had a pool and some time with the family. Staycations can make a change from the everyday routine. And be as much fun some days. I love the idea of an outdoor movie in the backyard. It would bring back some of my favourite memories of when I was a child. And even better if you can escape for a little spa pampering while the kids are playing.
I find my boys too are happy anywhere as long as there’s a pool. Glad you got to create such great memories with your son!
I love these tips! My daughter has been a bit of a homebody lately and doesn’t seem to want to go out (she does not seem to like hiking-which is pretty much our only option at the time). These ideas will come in handy next time I am looking for something to keep her busy. I love the camping out idea, I have been wanting to do this but for some reason just haven’t. Now is the perfect time to, it sounds like so much fun. I have great memories of doing this as a child. I actually did the drive in movie theater at a friend’s farm and it was a ton of fun! We actually stopped and looked at the stars for a while-something I haven’t taken the time to do in some time. Your post has gotten me excited about trying some of these other things!
I’m so glad you’re inspired! Hope you get to create some of those good memories for your kids, camping in the backyard 🙂
These are some really fancy ideas on planning something out of the box, that too in times like these. Staycations like these can indeed be like a breath of fresh air, a change from the routine, not just for the kids, but for everyone. I love the suggestion about the Home Spa. That session of pampering can indeed do wonders.
Yes, we forget while taking care of everyone else, how important it is to take care of ourself. Home spa, yes!
I loved all your ideas and they sound all worth doing with kids as we are home and can’t go anywhere very far. I am doing fancy dinner one but creating a home spa is a good idea. Also going for drive-in movie under the cluster of stars of night sky looks a nice exotic option. I would surely do either of them during upcoming weekend.
I hope you enjoy them! Movies are definitely different under the stars!
Yes it is definitely a time when kids need to be given special moments as they face these tough moments. I love all your ideas from Camp out, making a fancy dinner and going somewhere exotic.
Yes, it’s so good to take their mind off the craziness happening now. Have fun!