A Cowboy Weekend: Family Fun at the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch

by | Aug 8, 2020 | Day Trips From Los Angeles, Destinations, Romantic Retreats, USA, Weekend Trips, West Coast

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Just because you live in a modern city doesn’t mean you can’t be a cowboy. At least for a little while, anyway. About 100 miles from the skyscrapers of Downtown Los Angeles are men and women who wrangle horses and ride them, spurs clanking, through Refugio Canyon in the Santa Ynez Mountain range set in Santa Barbara County, with ocean breezes cooling their trail. Families or couples can join them, for a weekend or a day, in a part of the country that seems like a throwback to a time when frontiersmen and women had to tame the bustling land to settle it. 


Horseriding at the Circle Bar B Stables

When 5-star accommodations were in covered wagons….photo by Mark Zimmerman via Unsplash




A super fun, romantic weekend at the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch near Santa Barbara. A perfect daytrip or weekend getaway for Los Angeles families. Ride horses and live like a cowboy for a day or a weekend. Next time, bring the kids! A perfect place for a family reunion as each room is a separate house.


Circle Bar B Guest Ranch History

It is the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch that staked its claim on the smidge of a city called Goleta in Santa Barbara County in 1939 when a single mom, Florence Brown, bought 60 acres of land and moved the children’s day camp she had been running on her sister’s property in Los Alamos over there. It was a revolutionary endeavor at the time since women had only been allowed to own land since 1848 and had just been granted the right to vote 19 years earlier. “She had help from a gentleman friend,” Brown’s granddaughter, Kathy, told us as she showed us around when we visited for an overnight anniversary celebration this summer. Brown saw the possibilities in the sprawling canyon refreshed by the sea and eventually opened the guest ranch and horse stables so city dwellers like us could retreat into this country cocoon for a split.


The Video: Our Weekend At Circle Bar B Guest Ranch

Watch our entire trip as it unrolls into this fun weekend!


It’s a life dominated by nature and the appreciation of it you get when you step away from the technological windstorm in which most people live in the 21st century. Florence’s children and grandchildren took over the daily operation of the guest ranch when Florence eventually passed on. 


We think she was 94 but she never really did tell people her age so we don’t really know, Kathy confided.


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Florence Brown photo courtesy of the Brown Family


Today, Kathy runs the day-to-day operation of the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch with her husband, Henry, with help from various family members and a few long-term employees. Her brother, Patrick, operates the Circle Bar B Stables, where visitors who love to go horseback riding can rent a ride on a horse for 90 minutes to four hours. A crew of loyal cowboys take care of the horses and guests that ride them from the ranch’s stables through Refugio Canyon trails. It was on one of these trails that Howard proposed to me 15 years before. When I first spoke to Kathy about coming out to review her ranch, I had forgotten this was the place. I remembered horseback and the cliff but the excitement of the day blocked everything else.


Circle Bar B Guest Ranch

But first, he sang me a song by the creek on our drive up to meet the horses  © Rina Nehdar


The Rooms

Circle Bar B Guest Ranch

Home Sweet (overnight) Home  © Rina Nehdar


There are 18 cabins settling into the hillside switchback that make up the guest ranch. Most are one-bedrooms but three have two bedrooms. The two-bedroom we stayed in had two floors and the upper floor had a bunk bed and a queen-sized bed, perfect for a young family with the grandparents – or teenagers – staying in the bottom room.


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All in the outdoor family © Rina Nehdar



Circle Bar B Guest Ranch

The Cozy Living Room  © Rina Nehdar



Our Room  © Rina Nehdar


All Circle Bar B Guest Ranch cabins could be found in the pages of a Laura Ingalls Wilder Little House on the Prairie book. Most have no televisions but don’t worry, the cabins come with coffee makers, although breakfast and dinner are included with each stay. Also included is a pool surrounded by oaks and sycamores blowing away city concerns and a jacuzzi to finish melting them.


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Jump in and let your worries float away…. © Rina Nehdar


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Food and Drink

There is a clubhouse with a saloon-style bar where Henry is known to make a potent and tasty margarita. A stuffed grizzly bear looks down at guests who, in non-pandemic times, might hover around the couches set around a rocky mantle fireplace. Animal trophy heads decorate the cowboy hangout. A hallway down is where meals are usually served but during these times, all tables are set outside under a canopy of trees held back by a wooden overhang.


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Cowboy Club  © Rina Nehdar


We enjoyed dinner and then bought a bottle of wine at the saloon that we shared in the adjacent game room. A lively game of pool followed by some ping pong rounded out our parental festivities.


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A lovely round of wholesome © Rina Nehdar


Even in a pandemic, it’s possible to make friends. We met a couple in the attached library, full of books visitors could borrow, and a TV where they were watching a soccer game. Howard started talking to the husband, Estafan, about our boys, who also play soccer. Norma and Estafan had also come to celebrate their anniversary, turns out they shared our wedding date, only theirs was three years ago, so they still enjoyed their kid-free relationship. We told them not to hurry. We parted ways promising to seek each other out the next day before their scheduled wine tasting tour. These tours are still happening in a modified fashion with COVID restrictions in place.



Horseshoes and Horses

Yes, we got to sleep in and relish the sounds of hawks calling and a creek rolling over rocks just outside our cabin. After an alfresco breakfast at our assigned table, we spotted Norma and Estafan and challenged them to a game of horseshoes before our scheduled horseback ride at 11. Turns out horseshoes is a lot harder than it looks. You know the saying about close only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades but my throws weren’t even close. Howard had to retrieve many of the metal horseshoes from surrounding bushes and the road into which they rolled.


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Not quitting my day job….© Howard Nehdar


When 11 am came around, we walked down to the stables and met Cowboy Jack who made us feel welcome with his southern drawl and colorful jokes.


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Cowboy Jack at the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch Stables


He introduced us to Cowboy Johnny who guided our private ride.


Circle Bar B Stables

Cowboy Johnny leading the way….© Rina Nehdar


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Howard told him about the romantic significance of the occasion and the part it played in the history of our marriage. Although we tried to identify the cliff, hovering over trees and the ocean, where we had disembarked from our horses and Howard launched into his speech that began with, “You know how much I love you and how important you are to me…” 


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Was this the cliff where we decided to take the plunge?


We realized that the riding routes the guides used had changed since that day, 16 years before, so, instead, we enjoyed listening to Johnny talk about the robbers that had used the canyon as escape routes after executing their heists and giving the canyon its notorious name.


Circle Bar B Stables

We’re back!


Although we may not have broken any laws, our escape from the city into the tranquility of the country mountains left us feeling a kinship with the refugees from years past.


Circle Bar B Stables

Feeling a connection with the masked marauders…© Rina Nehdar


If You Bring The Kids


Painted Caves

About 40 minutes away from the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch, south on the US-101 and up State Route 154 is Chumash Painted Cave State Historic Park where Native Americans left evidence of their cosmic beliefs through easily accessible artwork. Another great opportunity to explore the past.


Family Beach

In the same southernly direction, you can visit the beach where dogs are welcome and people are friendly at Hendry’s Beach. It’s a small beach bordered by dramatic cliffs. Kids and dogs run leash free on the sand and waves. If you go hungry, don’t miss the incredible crabcakes at onsite restaurant, Hendry’s Boathouse.


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When You Go



Getting There To Circel Bar B Guest Ranch

Circle Bar B Guest Ranch is about 120 miles from downtown Los Angeles via the US-101 N. This location would be a great stop on a romantic couples’ road trip!


Circle Bar B Guest Ranch

Untamed Country © Rina Nehdar


When To Go

According to Wikipedia, “The climate of the mountain range is Mediterranean. Summers are warm and almost entirely rainless, save for occasional monsoon showers in August and September, though in most years there is no rain between May and October.” Although, it’s still Southern California so really, anytime there will be beautiful just in different ways.


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A super fun, romantic weekend at the Circle Bar B Guest Ranch near Santa Barbara. A perfect daytrip or weekend getaway for Los Angeles families. Ride horses and live like a cowboy for a day or a weekend. Next time, bring the kids! A perfect place for a family reunion as each room is a separate house.